Would you marry a man who completely adored you but is broke?

mystic14

Actually, I don't love nice things. I don't want kids and no way could I have kids with a broke man. Nobody wants to be poor. hopefully he has some ambition and we are not poor. Hopefully we can live a decent life. I am not interested in his money, I want to work. I don't care for fancy dinners or expensive jewelry, well only two that are expensive and I would maybe buy it myself. I don't need expensive getaways. A perpetually broke man? I would, but I hope he is not perpetually broke. I hope he has ambition and makes some money. I don't need a rich man, I don't need million dollar homes and cars and expensive jewelry at all. I have no interest in it. I hope to make a living though.

10 years ago

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mystic14

That is so sexist, women don't love stuff. Women love men. It's showing that love sometimes, possible through things but it doesn't always have to be.

10 years ago

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ballyhara

Well, I've had the opportunity to date a guy who was really into me, but yes he was completely broke. We dated for quite some time, and he was very humble, took care of me and was a nice guy. I was really considering moving forward with him, but eventually he showed a part of him I didn't know. He turned out to be taking advantage on me. I was paying the bills, buying the food, working day and night, while he was "searching" himself. So, he could be really charming and adorable, and he may be broke, but taking advantage on a lady, that is a despicable.

9 years ago

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DarthHazard

Well, it doesn't seem to be a question for me but I wanted to post some of my thoughts and opinions on it. I'm not going to choose a side at all because it's up to that person and who am I to say whether or not they should marry a man or not. Certain women will be after true love and will not care what situation a person is, although I'm certain that a lot of people may be reluctant to marry a poor/homeless person. Others may just be looking for a man that they can appreciate and are successful so that they don't have to worry about making money. It all depends on the person and I don't think we should judge their opinion

9 years ago

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farmfresh513

Sure, but really they have to have ambition and a work ethic that would pull them out of poverty. They don't even need to be who COMPLETELY adores me. We can have an equal partnership/adoration (it's not like I'm RICH or anything, so why would I expect the other party). But really, for me at least, the most attractive part of a person is being good at what they want to do, having a dream, and most importantly, the will to make that dream a reality!

9 years ago

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MarkJ94

To be honest I would say yes, because I believed in the saying that when love enter into someone it will make you do stuff even if it against all odds just to be with someone you love. Just have principles and goals in life to lift the status and became somehow stable in everyday living otherwise I see nothing wrong with that. Love see no gender, race and economic status, love is love you can't prevent it from happening. Thanks.

9 years ago

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felabruno

I think that the situation can always be changed so a broke person can find a better job or get a raise/promotion. Besides that, there are two people in a relationship so the budget is two salaries and it doesn't matter who makes more or less because it's something that belongs to both of them. If one person doesn't make enough I guess they should look for a better job.

9 years ago

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zheh

Yeah i have loved a man who's broke. It is not really a question of being broke honestly. For me i can love a man for whatever he is as long as i can see that he love and respect me and even if it comes to the day that he got broke or we met while he don't have anything i can accept it as long as i can see his will to do his best to have a decent job and not just accept the fact that he does not have anything and be ok with it and continue to lay back. I have experienced it with my ex boyfriend. We we're still in college when we got together, he just disappear and left me just because he says he can't do well with his study while having a relationship. I accepted it. After a few years he communicates with me, i already have a work that time while he said he's contract in previous work is already finish so he is jobless that time. We got together cause i still love him. I am the one who's doing all the spending like our dates and i even gave him money for his transportation expenses and all his needs while searching for a job. I accepted it all with no questions asked. Cause i say to myself that he is doing everything he can and maybe he'll find his luck soon. But time comes when i notice and smell something strange on what he is doing to me, though i try my best to not make assumptions, maybe god is the one who gave me the answer, our common friend inform me that i should decide cause they say he's into drugs and he got a girl pregnant. It is a big blow for me. So i decided to talk to him and he admits it. Well ofcourse, knowing there's a baby on the way and knowing all his lies i broke up with him even if he say he really love me. Well, that's my story. I know there are lots of women out there who can do what i have done. Money is just money even if we need it to survive. But understanding a situation is the best each of us can do as long as we are true to each other i think the relationship will work, it just happen that mine did not go well. But i never regret loving that person. It is still a learning experience and it makes me the person who i am today. Yeah i have loved a man who's broke. It is not really a question of being broke honestly. For me i can love a man for whatever he is as long as i can see that he love and respect me and even if it comes to the day that he got broke or we met while he don't have anything i can accept it as long as i can see his will to do his best to have a decent job and not just accept the fact that he does not have anything and be ok with it and continue to lay back. I have experienced it with my ex boyfriend. We we're still in college when we got together, he just disappear and left me just because he says he can't do well with his study while having a relationship. I accepted it. After a few years he communicates with me, i already have a work that time while he said he's contract in previous work is already finish so he is jobless that time. We got together cause i still love him. I am the one who's doing all the spending like our dates and i even gave him money for his transportation expenses and all his needs while searching for a job. I accepted it all with no questions asked. Cause i say to myself that he is doing everything he can and maybe he'll find his luck soon. But time comes when i notice and smell something strange on what he is doing to me, though i try my best to not make assumptions, maybe god is the one who gave me the answer, our common friend inform me that i should decide cause they say he's into drugs and he got a girl pregnant. It is a big blow for me. So i decided to talk to him and he admits it. Well ofcourse, knowing there's a baby on the way and knowing all his lies i broke up with him even if he say he really love me. Well, that's my story. I know there are lots of women out there who can do what i have done. Money is just money even if we need it to survive. But understanding a situation is the best each of us can do as long as we are true to each other i think the relationship will work, it just happen that mine did not go well. But i never regret loving that person. It is still a learning experience and it makes me the person who i am today.

9 years ago

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grs2017

YES, I would! money isn't everything and him being broke now doesn't mean that he will always be broke, besides if he adores he is rich enough for me. We can focus on building a life together full of love and mutual respect and maybe one day we could own an empire.

9 years ago

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fulstaf

I'm a man, but I will respond anyway. The moment I will ask my self that question I'll end up the relationship immediately, cause I'm thinking about things that are real and will make it to the surface once the honeymoon ends, almost all relationships problems are money related, so, it's better to clear that out first before getting into any bad situations.

9 years ago

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SirenOnFire

No. I don't think I'd ever do that even if I love the guy very much. I didn't study hard in college and work my ass off to have a bright future just to have a husband who instead of helping out in the financial state of the family, will just be a burden to me. First off, no man with self respect will allow himself to just go broke and do nothing about it. If he lost so much money, then he has to stop wallowing in the corner and do something to earn it again. Second, love will never last if there is no respect and I for one could never respect a guy who allows himself to be a loser and not help himself to stand back up again, rather just depend on others to save his ass off. I can deal with being poor and broke, but not to those who stay poor and broke.

9 years ago

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augusta

This is not the matter of loving a man without money, finanacialthe present circumstance has not permitted love to strive without somefinancialseciurity.I don't for other I can be with a man without money in this age and time.Go out there and do something and make some money for the family and that's it

9 years ago

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preciseone

I am a man as well and I just have to respond to this. If a woman wanted to be with me just because I can afford to buy her nice things, well she just is not the one for me. I do not want a woman that only wants expensive things, being taken out to expensive places all the time. What about just having that person in your life that you care about because they they treat you right and do what they can for you!

9 years ago

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Keibah2

As long as the perpetual broke guy has ambitions and is not lazy then I would mother his kids. I don't care for fancy and over the top stuff. I can work for what I want.

9 years ago

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trebor2017

Well I agree even though that I person a person has no money but she has guts to take risk to make a better life for our future family I will gladly marry her. Also being a loving wife and loving mother to children will be able to suffice her being poor. Also if that person is and myself are truly in love with each other I will do my best so that I can be with her forever Would you marry a man who completely adored you but is broke?

. Love always prevail no matter what it encounters Would you marry a man who completely adored you but is broke?

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9 years ago

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jaymish

I believe, that we all know the type of life we want to live. I also believe, that we should all work for the lives that we want . The days of depending on a man for money, are long gone. It would also be interesting, to know why,the guy is broke. Is it temporary? If it is, i can work with him, to resolve his situation, as i believe i have enough ambition for myself and to handout. But if he has no problem with his situation, then we have a problem.

9 years ago

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Heatman6190

As much as it seems to be a nice and affectionate thing to having someone adore you, I think personally it's not just enough because there are lots of things that simply being adored wouldn't not fetch you but rather fund would.

I am not saying that everything must be monetized, no not at all but all I am trying to bring to light is that as much as someone would love you and adore you, but without the money to do the things money ought to do in relationships, it's definitely not going to work.

Having said this, it's obvious to point out that adoring someone is not just enough reason to be in a relationship. The money is very important and crucial to the cause.

9 years ago

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Rachel2017

Yes, I will marry a man who loves me so dearly believing he can still be financially rich someday. As a woman, I always believe money is not all that the life of man requires, but satisfaction and peace. Women who habitually admire and cherish financial wealth in accepting to get married to a man never get the needed satisfaction and joy from that. I personally believe to stay with a poor man who will always give me joy, happiness and satisfaction that I deserve than being with a man who will always cheat on me and do all sorts of things to make me unhappy in life.

9 years ago

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tophew

Yes will marry a man if he is good and know how to take care of his responsibility also have a perseverance to work hard to achieve goal i would love to stay with him for the rest of my life. i don't really a big fan of expensive things and glorious restaurant i live a simple life. its okay with me.

9 years ago

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sephzer

It always depends in the situation. Love changes everything. You really love that person there is no reason for you to not marry him/her. If you love someone you will not stay as a broke but instead you will do the best of you can to provide the needs of the one that you loved.

9 years ago

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mabhel

If love is the only thing that matters in a relationship, maybe I will marry him. Though he is not rich and doesn't not have the capacity to give me the things that I want, I will still marry him. But, if I am to consider the welfare of my family specially the kids, I will not take risk even if I do love him. I still can accept if he cannot buy me expensive gifts and other luxurious things because I know how to live even without these things but I cannot afford to live with someone who cannot provide even our basic needs. I'm constantly reminded that once I finally decide to get married with the person I love, it means that we are also ready to be full responsible of the family we are building. Therefore, I cannot set aside the importance of finances from mental, spiritual and emotional readiness as an important factor in planning to settle down. If he is broken and unable to provide, it should be but for a moment. Love should be his motivation to be the man that his family needs.

A happy home doesn't necessarily mean that it abounds with material things. It would be ideal if in spite of the things that we have and we don't have, we are helping each other to the best of our ability to work out things and to have a harmonious relationship with Christ as the center of our everything.

9 years ago

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dzannerz

Well for me yes I mean why not if he can give you a perfect life why not give him chance to show you how to have a perfect life.

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gelotologist

If it's the other way around then I will probably marry the girl even if she's broke as long she feel the same way I feel which is love. You know what other people say that love will conquers all and that would be are motto for the rest of our lives. And also, If the girl is a hardworker and would want the both of you to suceed in lofe then I might say she is the one.

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Judas2018

The word 'broke' has different connotations depending on the person who is viewing the situation. For example, those considered as 'working poor' are labeled broke by middle class or upper middle class people. But the second tier are considered 'broke' by wealthy or really rich people. Millionaire rappers, entertainers, wall street investors or heiresses to a fortune would consider rich people to be somewhat 'broke'. Because while they're rich, they still have to worry about not being rich some day if they don't do the right things. Whereas the third tier have made or have access to more money than they can or could spend in a lifetime in a relatively small period of time, and at a very young age. Mark Zuckerberg for example.

In terms of regular people getting together and what not. I don't think it's ever healthy to get involved with a person who has NO money at all. It puts a strain on the relationship because you can't do anything with them. Not even dinner and a movie. Where's the fun in that? Then there's the ability to have nice things. Like a place of your own, clothes on your back, food, etc. Without money that's virtually impossible.

9 years ago

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wallet

I am a man so, I would reverse the answer. I don't care if the loved person is rich or not, all I care is for her to love me for real, without any reason, Love must be true and not exist for money or any other purpose.
I love my wife, I would say that she was rich when I met her, but this had no weight in the measure my love for her!

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Barida

We should have to realize that marriage is for better and for worse and that means that each partner should put love first before talking about every other thing. I would marry a woman that is broke as long as she is really to support on my quest to reach to the top.

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PedroP

Same here buddy. When we mature a bit we realize that money is important but there are several things which are more important like companionship and affection. In that sense, we must prioritize what is really important

9 years ago

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Pixie06

Nowadays it is very difficult to find someone who genuinely loves you. If I happen to find a man who loves me dearly then I won't be able to refuse even though he is broke. Money is not everything. I totally believe in the saying that money can't buy happiness. I prefer to live happily with someone rather than marrying someone who is rich and who doesn't care about me.

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chrisbarett

I believe that if he truly loves you he will do anything for you and change his character if he sees that problems will arise because of him.
The most important thing is to be compatible with the characters and not to feel sorry that you have formed a couple.
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M1ndPrototype

Absolutely not, I wouldn't be happy in such a marriage. A man should develop and achieve well-being for his woman.

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stagbucarpruspe

I used to think you should marry for love. Now my opinion has changed a little because you need to take into account the education and ability to work of your future husband. Of course, you also need to make sure that he has good relatives because you will have to deal with them as well. My husband is a very talented person, but unfortunately, he doesn't have the ability to earn money to buy a house. Therefore, we have financial difficulties and family problems. I've already read various articles on the topic of relationships between spouses in order to save our marriage. So, I found a great blog https://marriage-professor.com/. And I'm pretty sure we can do it if he tries to solve our financial problems. Because it depresses him and prevents him from living and enjoying every day.

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M1ndPrototype

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kamer

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DOROTI1

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