Fatherly Pearls of Wisdom 3: Reaching 3rd Base

Fatherly Pearls of Wisdom 3: Reaching 3rd Base

Hello and thanks for reading my 3rd fatherly pearls of wisdom that my father taught me when growing up. Some of these are very wise indeed, some of them a bit goofy and some of them fun. And some of them, like this one, a bit more serious.

Fatherly Pearls of Wisdom 3: Reaching 3rd Base

3. Been on enough dates and ready for 3rd base son? That's cool but don't ever have sex with anyone that doesn't want it as much as you do. It should be a mutual feeling!

While not something everyone needs to be told and taught, even if to reflect upon, it's just something typical of a parent to say to their son or daughter when growing up and coming to an age where it's likely they're going to experience sex for the first time don't you think?

And while I've never really been the type to talk about most of this kind of stuff with my parents (aren't most lads like that?), I do remember my old man telling me this and have always wondered why he told me it too since. What I sincerely hope (and am sure of) is that he told me it more for my own good rather than out of a guilty conscience! LOL.. Although I guess, it doesn't have to mean anything bad, just really a matter of knowing and respecting the feelings of your date, or your girlfriend or boyfriend and respecting them! Just more really being thoughtful and considerate I guess which he did teach me about.

I was very young back then though but getting older way into my late teens and had already had a few girlfriends by then, some serious, some just flings. Flings, such a weird name for a short-term relationship don't you think? As you can just "fling" them away when you're finished with them like they're just some toy or something. Crazy.

But what I do wish now is that I'd asked him something like;

What about if they only want it a little bit?
How do you measure and where do you draw the line?
What about my needs? LOL

But more only as a joke and a tease to make light of what was quite an embarrassing thing to talk about then!

But so yeah, don't ever have sex with someone that doesn't want it as much as you do.

I hope this post is okay for here!

We all adults here anyway.

Cheers!

Mike.