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Thinking of quitting freelancing - anyone else?

I've been working freelance for quite a while now, many years in fact, but recently I've been starting to grow bored of it. Sure the pay is generally decent and the hours are beyond flexible, but ultimately I just end up sitting at home alone without having anyone to even call to and have a good discussion.
I don't have any friends at all, so I think that moving back to office environment might be the best cure for all these issues. Anyone else done the same? How did it work out for you?

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vicsylicious
I've had the same thoughts of going back to Firm Life run through my mind. I've only been self-employed for two months, and it's been beyond frightening. I keep asking myself can i really do this? And I realized I have to keep trying because If I do, I'll be closer to the life I want to lead. Returning to the old life will put me right back to where I started. Less scary maybe, but as someone told me, If you're not living on the edge, you're just taking up space. I just got a sadness from the thought of giving it all up. So I won't.



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vicsylicious
In addition, I have two tips for you to deal with loneliness as a freelancer. First is you cook even for yourself but better for friends Thinking of quitting freelancing - anyone else? , and the second is get in touch with your ex working partners or colleagues regularly at least twice or once a week. Going out for a walk sometimes and enjoying the nature is a great way too to deal with loneliness. By the way I joined a Facebook group, so as not to be alone Thinking of quitting freelancing - anyone else?



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BelindaMT
I like your point in there. She can also be an office worker in a day and a freelancer at night just like what I do so that she won't get bored. I have a full time freelancer cousin and sometimes she call me if she's bored and sometimes she invite me to come over to her house to have some coffee and a little chat.



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Carmilina
That is a good suggestion. You can always do another things to divert your loneliness.



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dzannerz
Very well said for your insight. I sometimes think of quiting my job and just apply for online job as freelancer but I didnt get hired so maybe freelancing is not for me.lol



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iamawriter
Freelancing is not the best idea to depend on for regular income. I do not know of anyone who makes that their full time job. Most here surely have other outlets for earning. And others like me are here more for the interaction at a global level, learning and sharing



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SirenOnFire
I guess it really depends on a person if what is her goal in doing these kinds of job. For people like me, we try to have these kind of jobs to earn just a few extra bucks, while some have gained numerous amounts of money, even fame, by being bloggers, website owners and Youtubers.



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iamawriter
I still feel online earnings cannot be compared to getting earnings through a 9 to 5 job where one also has other perks and safety too. Online activity is unpredictable. Customers can just vanish.



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tophew
for me i am fine withas a freelancer at home i already work as a freelance for 1 year and still i am happy i can go to my friends with my laptop to jam with. but if you like to work in office much happy with all the co workers friends you can meet go on. you can still be a freelancer with your free time.



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DarthHazard
That's probably the best thing to do if you prefer an office setting, to be honest. Whenever you have free time then you can do some freelancing here and there to earn yourself some extra money on the side. The benefit of this is that you get to enjoy a bit of both, an office environment and working on your own terms.



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saygorem
Yes, as a freelancer we can do what we want according to our schedule. We have the time to go out and enjoy life as free as we want. There are so many opportunities available now in our time. You just have to manage your time to work and when to go out to do other things like socializing.



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SirenOnFire
Same here, but in my case, I do these kind of jobs to earn a few bucks while studying and not receiving any paycheck. It sucks to be a professional and still has to ask for parents for financial support because I decided to pursue further studies. It's both embarrassing and annoying. It was quite hard to do it at first because I do't know anyone to have tried these but after just a month of doing these, I learned a lot, but still learning more.



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saygorem
For me, I am fine with freelace job and online opportunities. I just manage my time to go out with friends every other day specially with my family. You just have to balance your work and social life. In the end it depends on what are your decisions will make you feel satisfied. Goodluck!



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jbmedalla2
I agree with you! Being a freelancer means you are the boss of your own time! You can choose when you will work. You can have more time with your family and friends.



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Mida
Yes, working at the office probably won't tackle his loneliness. You can be a freelancer and enjoy life just like other ordinary workers. So he just have to balance what he is doing. You can always talk to friends and everyone else while still freelancing. Also keep in mind that the other office workers are there for work. Many of them are likely to separate things like friendship and the work at the office.



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Pixie06
Ever since I started working as a freelancer I get to spend more time with my family. If you can plan your time well then you will always find time to meet your friends and do your other works and also freelance at the same time. For instance, if I have to go out during the day then I try to wake up earlier in the morning or I work till late at night.



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SirenOnFire
I agree! It also helped me a lot when I decided to pursue a higher education and no longer able to work daily. I can do freelancing jobs in my own time and still able to earn even just a few bucks while I live the life of a student again.



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anor0428
I never thought about it. I am happy being a freelancer because having jobs online is more convenient than having jobs on actual office. You can work anytime you want, as many as you can as long as you are capable of doing the work. You do not have to wake up early, no traffic jam, no need to wait for time out, no documents needed, less hassle, and more money to save. But if ever i get an office based job, I will still continue doing some works online.



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saygorem
Yes, I totally agree with you anor0428. You just have to find legit online job to earn money online. A decent payout will do. I just need an online job to support my needs and some extra cash to shop for unexpensive items.



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overcast
It can be good if you have home and no other financial commitment. But apart from that you can see that it may add up more constraints on time and other stuff. Job can be good if you are working on fixed salary. But if you have no fixed salary with freelancing, then things can be a bit harder to handle. And people often have that problem. So I think freelancing is good if you have some sort of financial backing from where I see this.



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Barida
Before taking work as a freelancer, one has to understand the demands of the work which involves giving it almost your entire time so as to deliver the best content for your clients that hired you online. It is just like going to work and having to give your best at work without distractions of friends coming around your office during office hours to discuss personal things with you and all that. So, being a freelancer is a tough task and one needs to reason between not making some decent pay online to not making anything online which one is okay.

I think time management is key to any freelancer in the sense that you should plan every day on which time you should be online working and which other time you would like to go and see friends. Relaxing your mind once in awhile is a way to refresh your brain and body so as to be able to give your best when you're back at work. Working always is not good both online and offline jobs which are the reason we have working hours at firms some of us work with as well.



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JoeMilford
This is totally true. Time management is the absolute key when it comes to freelancing, and being one's own boss is a pretty challenging prospect. I think that the cubicle corporate life is a really tough one, and it can drive us crazy, but, if we are not careful, we can turn our online jobs and at-home freelancing into an even worse prospect with no socialization and poorer health and the stultifying hour after hour in front of the computer. Managing our time as freelancers is key to our personal health and to the health of our businesses, I would say.



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SirenOnFire
I think freelancing being considered a boring job really depends on a person. Many people would prefer to work at their homes since it is undeniable very convenient to do so. Although of course, pay is usually a lot less than jobs done in real offices, it has to be kept it in mind hat it is after all called a freelance job, which means you can have extra bucks through it, but can't really pay your bills if you just depend on it. If you don't feel like doing it anymore and you want to seek other jobs,then do so. Doing something that you no longer want to is nothing short of torture, in my opinion.



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plasmablutte12
I agree with you, it has no guarantee to pay bills. Sometimes it's one of bothersome to be the root of the problems. Because when you expect to have been paid, it will just a false promise at all. Another factor also to the freelancing is that, the payments is so delayed, and it will wait, for the whole month just to withdraw. It has no guarantee, but sometimes worth risking.

I stopped online freelancing long ago. Because the fact that, I can no longer afford internet bills, sometimes my salaries become delayed which is not good. Many freelancers have highest payment when it comes to their related job, especially web developers.



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SirenOnFire
I guess one of the reasons that there will be problems of being paid on time is that there's no contracts being signed in this kind of job, therefore, if something would be amiss or there will be unfairness on the matter, there's no one you can really go after, unlike in jobs in real offices. There are also a lot of freelancing jobs that are nothing but scams. I have not been a victim of this before, thank God, but we do know that there are a lot who has been. That would be a really big and awful problem if this is only your source of income. I guess what's best is having both a day job, and then some freelancing if you've got time or in need of some extra cash.



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DanoCath
I choose to start freelancing a month ago for I wanted to try something new and be able to earn to cover my daily expenses. However, things just don't do well with me, I've been looking for a freelancing job for more than a month but never had a luck of finding one. I thought to myself that this isn't easy and am planning to quit for I incur too many expenses but never earn anything.



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peachpurple
actually, freelancing is only suitable for part-timers. It is not suitable for full time job. I am a housewife, had been freelancing for 10 years. Honestly, I had become obsolete from the society. I don't know how to take public bus, how to talk or request for something at the government office. Hardly able to understand what people are talking about. I wish I could go back to the society, the only way is to work full time and use freelancing as part time. Only full time job could give you the huge salary.



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trebor2017
Yes, I have considered quitting in being a freelancer because sometimes there are a lot of jobs but you can't get even one job so that why sometimes I blame my self of having lack of skills and knowledge. But giving up is not a man should do so I still try my best learn new skills and knowledge I can use in my freelancing job.



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galegatling
It would really depend on how you treat your freelancing jobs. Is it part time of full time? If it is full time and you are getting bored and feeling alone, then it is not working out for you. Because if it is working out for you, you wouldn't feel that way because you will then have your time budgeted and allocated for certain things such as freelancing time, and socializing or family time or even time for yourself. Personally I think it all depends on you.



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anor0428
Exactly, it will depend on the person on how how he/she takes freelancer jobs. Well, for me I am contented doing works online. I can save a lot because I dont have to spend for transpotation and rentals. My home is quite far from the city and it costs me much when I was still working on officed based job. That is why I decided to switch on online works.



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galegatling
That is good to hear. May I know which platforms are you currently using on your online freelancing jobs? I'm always curious to know what other platforms people here in ListingDock are using to earn some cash online. Thinking of quitting freelancing - anyone else?



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lovefoxycharms
Hello there! I've been working from home for almost three years now, I think and I could imagine how lonely you can get most of the time. In fact, I have my husband working at home as well but I still get so bored as well sometimes. He's my only colleague, you know. And if we have some arguments at some point, my job is a bit affected so I end up not finishing some tasks that I have. Nonetheless, I think this is still a big advantage for us since we have a 2-year-old daughter to raise, we are able to watch her grow. Perhaps you are single? Then if you are, then I think that's a really different case for you. Because as a parent now, I have different priorities now compared when I was still single. I care about socializing so much lesser at this time.

Can you imagine a party girl that goes out almost every day with her friends and then suddenly just gets married and all the social life stops including having co-workers because I chose to stay at home for my job? I must admit that I badly miss going out with my friends or just having some colleagues to work with but now, I just think about how much money and how much time I could gain for me and my family.

Well, what I could advise you is that since our freelancing job is so flexy, why not try to schedule some day or night outs with your friends? You could also take a vacation with your friends or your family once in a while. When you work in the office, remember that you have to wait for your vacation leaves to be granted by your boss and it would only allow you to be away from your job for a few days, not like when you hold your own time. I think you could deal with missing your social life by that? Those are just suggestions because it's still up to you.

Regards,
Camille



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Keibah2
Well if you are comfortable with the pay and the loneliness is your problem, I think there are other ways to sort that. You could hang out with friends at your free time, take a walk, bake for the neighbors and all.

personally I'm thinking of going into freelancing and if I'm successful with it then I will be fine since the office setting isn't really a thing for me.



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galegatling
That is what I am thinking as well. I mean, it's not like you are doing online job all day. I am sure that if you would just allocate certain hours for that online job that you are doing, you can still hang out with friends and family and socialize. It's not that big of a deal unless you are an employer of a certain company and you are working for them online and they will demand you to be online anytime.



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peachpurple
You are right, loneliness could be the problem because we are interacting with each other online with text messages, not verbal spoken. When one gets bored, it is time to get out to the shopping mall, talk to the sales girls, talk to your friends or cousins, hang out with them. Then you can get more ideas what to write and get into the trend too.



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plasmablutte12
Yes, freelancing is quite tiresome. Because, when your boss called you from abroad. It will be quite difficult, if your called you at the middle of the night while sleeping. Maybe to the other person is okay with this kind of routine, but I find this unhealthy way of life style. I have once a project in odesk, but the required time was hard time on focus, yet not promising of good payment.

It depends how you schedule your work, especially in late night hourly projects. I am 3d specialist, and I designed many virtual reality environment, but it does give me a good salary at all. That's why I quit that job.



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PedroP
I have been considering also. I only freelance part time and I do a day job still What I find hard to cope with is the low pays and how difficult it is to access better jobs. I just quite crowd flower because it took a month to be promoted to level one and I still face the same problem with bad test questions. Meh



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Tronia
Then you are perhaps looking in the wrong places. Freelancing can be a very decent money depending on your skills and knowledge. The PTC and micro sites will pay low but if you go into real freelancing as in offering your services on platforms you will earn far more and probably enjoy it as well. I suggest that you give it a try Thinking of quitting freelancing - anyone else?



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PedroP
I have tried it! I tried to work as a translator and as a content writer. Still, the same problems arise. Way too hard to land a decent job and tons of people applying for the same job. In that way, the concurrence is smashing and the odds of you actually getting the job are slim. Still thanks for the advice. I will reconsider my decision



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Carmilina
I wish I know other freelancing stuff, so I can earn more money. Do you know any other things that can help me



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felabruno
It's been over a year since I started working from home and I couldn't be happier. I have a decent income and I don't have to go out, which is the best part. Having a regular job was very exhausting for me, dealing with many people every day was super tiring and sometimes even overwhelming. I would never consider to quit my work from home, at least not for now.



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Tronia
I can't say that I've experienced same thoughts as you... perhaps freelancing just isn't for you? Not every job type is suitable for everybody. I have been freelancing for a while now and I have not once gotten bored or tired of it. It is truly my dream job because I am my own boss. I decide what offers I take. I decide when I'll work and for how much. You won't get this sort of deal in any company or firm. I can't say that I have noticed a decrease in the quality of my social life either. I have a partner and many lovely friends. I go outside daily and do various activities. You should focus on trying to socialize more and see how you feel after.



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askanison
Over the years I have gone back and forth with a regular job and freelancing because of the same issues. You get tired of being alone and not having someone to take a break with and talk. You need a sounding board to vent to about the issues you are going thru other than work. It's not healthy to bottle things in and have no outlet to vent to when you really need to. I suggest both. Find something regular to do and keep a few online things going to help out. Hope this helps.



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geloi
Sure, you can do that! Just be sure you are ready to get out from your comfort zones. I know you what is life in the regular office jobs right? Being a freelancer doesn't really necessarily mean you have to always stay at home or hide yourself from people, In fact it is an opportunity to broaden your network. I have a regular work and I am a freelancer because I need more income than that of any other regular dudes out there. If you have the right skills for being a freelancer and have a good network of clients, I think you wouldn't think of quitting it.



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jaymish
This discussion has come at just the right time for me. I 've been grappling with the same question in my mind. I have left my job and just started freelancing. The problem is not , how much money is to be made, as i know some freelancers who make, a lot of money. The problem is, I start wondering if I will be satisfied working from home.I am used to the routine of getting up, going to work, sitting in the traffic, interacting with people. Will this work for me? What I have resolved to do, is give it a try . As someone mentioned in the comments above, how else will you live the life you want? how else will you be your own boss? dictate your own hours ? control your own income? control your own destiny? My friend who posed the question, i think like me, you're running scared of stepping into the unknown. By being a freelancer, you're swimming against the current and that 's scary. We all have to admit that life is changing. This is now the new normal.



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PinkTurtle
Maybe you just need a part time regular job? have you tried that? I get what you are saying, it is good to speak with "real" people from time to time and freelancing doesn't give you that opportunity that often, you don't make friends, you get customers... Interacting with people is the real struggle of freelancing for me, you just don't get that much, at least not that often!. It can get a little boring, I feel you...



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Judas2018
Most people would prefer freelancing as it gives them more control over their work and how much time they spend on it. If you return to your old office, you might find 'the grind' off-putting. Sounds to me like you need to maybe find some way to freelance but spend less time working and divide your time between work and getting out, getting some fresh air and meeting people. Maybe some work that makes just as much money but in half the time of a work day.



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Rachel2017
Quitting freelancing might not be the best option for now if there is no cogent reason for doing so. You might be frustrated one way or the other in freelance jobs, but that might not be enough as a cause to quit freelancing. I have been into freelance writing jobs for almost a decade now with several challenges here and there, but I never decided quitting because it is highly rewarding. I have made a lot of money as a freelance writer and I still love to continue with the job.



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AmieBotella
They say that when you pursue your passion in your work life, you will never get bored. While I believe this is true, sometimes you get drained on the current situation you are in. While you and I have probably the same feelings right now, we're kind of in the opposite at the same time. A few years back, I love being a self-employed engineer running my own work field and employing a few workers to work for sub contract projects. The pay was good and it kept my family happy because generally, we still hold out time just like how most freelancers do. But last year I got a project from hell. I had a client who bullied me most of the duration of the project for a good three fourths of the time I work for her. I thought this is just one of those people who are cleverly disguised to teach us a thing or two. But when I finally decided to quit the job, I realized I have been drained to the gutter. I do not want to accept any more job in my field. I was bullied through the social media, I was harassed at very early hours of the morning, I was threatened in a way and at the time I never realized it was affecting me. Almost a year after that, I am still accepting contract jobs but I am cautious. I feel like I just wanted to work in front of a computer all alone for awhile. This is the reason why i suddenly tried to learn working online. You may feel the need to change the setting of your environment but at the same time soothe what you think you've been missing. I wish you good luck on your future endeavors.



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JoeMilford
Great post here! I believe that you must have passion for what you do, but you also need to know when, no matter how much passion you have, sometimes a business venture is just not going to work out. I am sorry you had this negative experience in your engineering enterprise. If you can make a living at your computer and avoid negative people like you mentioned above in your field, than I think that sounds great and hopefully it will be a lot less stressful for you.



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AmieBotella
JoeMilford, thank you for your kind words. That is so true that even in the moment of doing what you love, sometimes things get frustrating and a bit draining at times. Every now and then we can always look at other things outside our world. Who knows, exploring other things may put us in another world where we would enjoy once more.



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jemuelterrado
Take note that freelancing is just a sideline job for those people who needs an extra income. If you really love to work and hang out with friends go find some jobs thats best suites for you, Free lancing will never leave you you can go back anytime in case you need it and thats how free lancing works. I understand how you feel and i thought it once also because i am a free lancer still but at the same time an employer in a company. I work day and freelance at night. I once decided to quit free lancing but i need an extra income so i did both the free lance and working outside internet.



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overcast
I have struggled a lot too. I have recently started making consistent money. So I am not planning on quitting as of yet. Because that simply isn't going to work out. You can see that some of the time such freelancing takes toll on body. And it also affects your life in many ways. So if you consider that part, then better to be sure of the other ways to establish yourself. Because job alone often don't cut it. And freelancing earning alone isn't going to solve the problem. So you have to be mindful on where you are adding the resources. And also pay attention to how much you're making. Then take the decisions.



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chelfox18
At first, I thought about being bored, but when I start earning, I find it more interesting to do it as my part time job or even full time, all important to me is having more time together with my family. I'm a family man, and I want job that I will not be away with my family, that's why Freelancing is my ideal job.



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overcast
Yes it feels good if the freelancing is working out. Most of the time freelancing is often random. And saving money in this option is lot harder. So for that part I am guessing that freelancing requires more effort. And people have to be really careful of where they are adding the money. So based on that part, I'd say freelancing requires some efforts too.

I won't say it is my idea job. Because it is not much earning me per hour. And in order to have some decent output I guess one needs good customers. And earning has to be consistent. That's the way it works for most of us.



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chelfox18
In addition, the best thing about Freelancing is that you can work on your own, and you can work on your own time. Freelancing is a very flexible job, the nature of this job is different from real time job, since in Freelancing you are being judge by your skills and knowledge, not by years of your experience.



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rogiesonb
How I wish that I can also earn a decent money from freelancing like all of you do. I have already a bachelor's degree and yet I do not seem to find any freelancing jobs suited for me. What I only know are PTC sites and they pay really low.



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DarthHazard
Considering that you have a bachelor's degree, I would recommend that you stay away from those PTC sites and try to find some good paying jobs. If you prefer online work, then maybe you could look at some articles online that may give you an online business idea. I would maybe try affiliate marketing which can be extremely high paying if you do it properly. PTC sites are awful and the pay is awful so I would definitely stay away from them.



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augusta
This is just human nature, we are too dynamic.Everything about us is so flexible and ofcourse the only constant thing in nature is change.you were freelancing and enjoying the money but now you get bored and feel the office environment would be the cure.Sorry there, in some years to come you will be running back home to freelancing.hahaha.

Do you know why?,because you'll be fed-up with the annoying boss, rude and impolite colleagues, dirty environment ,poor service condition, those friends you want to go meet will soon step on your toes and you will feel like killing somebody.So think well,my friend.



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ballyhara
Actually, I'm kind of new into freelancing. So far I've had some good and bad experiences as usual. The part that is kind of annoying to me is the fact of time investment. Usually, I spent a lot of time online, which takes social interaction with my friends or family. I can't deny it can be very profitable, but I feel in some way trapped in the job. Sometimes it can get very repetitive and boring, but when that happens, I just take a break, get some distraction and then go back to job. It helps a lot.



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onlineblogger
It's so convenient to work from home but if you're bored, maybe you need to look for some friends online as well. There are several Facebook Groups and Forums you can join and meet some friends from the "work from home world." Maybe once you get to build a rapport to some work at home people, you can schedule a meet-up and have some fun. The convenience and flexibility of working from home is non-comparable to the corporate world.



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wilkan80
We all want freedom from an 8 to 5 job in an office, where you become a freelancer because you are free with your own freedom. What we forget we are also supposed to manage our social life also and not end up being buried with work indoors and forget there are great outdoors where life never stops. If you can spare time and have your social freedom away from freelancing and meet up with real people then you will not think of quitting.



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JoeMilford
I too have definitely considered quitting freelancing. However, I've only been at it for a few months, so I don't want to give up prematurely. I know it can be discouraging at times, and frustrating, and terribly time-consuming; still, you should never quit before you have put in your best efforts and you have exhausted all of your options. You never know when that great opportunity is just around the corner for you, and as they say, tomorrow is a new day and new doors could be opening that you never expected. Almost every day in these forums, for instance, people suggest new places, or places which I did not know of, to go and make some money. In other words, there are possibilities out there. Just try to stay as positive as you can.



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sephzer
Working in your own free time is very convenient but if you easily bored by kind of job then it is not suitable for you. We should work in a job that interest us.



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wiseagent
I think one of the biggest problems in doing this kind of work is the lack of professional and personal recognition. Unfortunately not all freelancers know how to deal with these types of situations and they end up giving up.



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vinaya
I never had a regular job, I mean I never worked in an organization with fixed working hours such as 9-5. I have been a freelancer all of my life. After, I completed my university program, I had to option, to continue working as a freelance writer (I was already freelancing in newspapers) or choose a career in an organization, possibly in a bank (I was a management student). I chose to be a freelancer. All through these years, I enjoyed the freedom to work in my convinent time, from my home, and never had anyone dictate me. Having said this, I sometimes have this desire to get a regular job, especially when I see my friends making more money and a stable career. Finding job and making a stable income are the hardest parts of freelancing.



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KhalilaRose
Freelance is not for everyone. I chose freelance because I don't like working for anyone else and basically selling my time when I could be earning money and keeping my time for myself when I want. I like that I'm working to further my business (and getting paid for it!) instead of working to further some one else's business. I have to admit that freelance takes a lot more work than I thought because you have to be constantly on the lookout for new opportunities, but I love how I can take a day off when I feel like it.

As for your social life, I see no reason why you can't still make friends while being a freelancer. There are many networking events you can attend where you can meet many other like-minded individuals. There are now also some cities that offer communal office spaces for freelancers to work in every day instead of working from home. It may not be as easy to make friends than if you were to work in a traditional office job, but it's not impossible if you look hard enough.



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naknakdatu
Yes, however, I am thinking if I quit then my family will starv to death. Seriuosly online job is the only income I have right now. Maybe if I can find another work like a descent work enough to play bills and buy food then why not?



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zheh
For now i'm still ok with my freelancer online job. I'm not that fulltime so i still have time for my other job and time for my family and friends. I treat it as a way to fight my boredom at home and at the same time earn with it so it's really good for me. Maybe if i find a fulltime job that i won't have the time anymore then that's the day i will decide to quit.



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fulstaf
People at the office are boring at the office more then loneliness, when I want human interaction I get together with my real friends, play some music, or discuss topics that have nothing to do with every day life.



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Mida
You can always continue freelancing in combination with working at the office. I know many people doing that, and it will probably tackle the loneliness you are experiencing. You just need to plan your schedule again to take care of the new changes. Unfortunately, you'll have to stop having a flexible schedule many freelancers enjoy since working at the office require a bit of rigid work schedule everyday.



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chelfox18
In freelancing, you have many options, because you can work as many hours as you want or as little as you want. I think socialization is not that hard also, since you the controlling the time of your work. For that, time management is the key.



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diels1001
If the circumstances has agreed to me, I will definitely quit it. I just became a freelancer to have extra income to fulfill my needs and I need it really bad. My current full-time income generating work cannot suffice my needs and as a result, I decided that I need to do part-time and picked freelancing as the one since I can't really find a real part-time job. I really earn a very small amount, but still, money is money and I need to get everything that I can get to be enough for my living. For those who can find a real part-time job, you must taking instead of being a freelancer.



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cubo
I have a few months working as a freelancer but I don't want to a freelancer for the rest of my life. I just want to spend a couple of years more in this world until I get my college degree and I can get a job based on my career. I don't feel comfortable working sitting with a computer every day, I prefer a job that I can keep my body on movement and I can share with other people. A job where I can get out of my house and spend time with others.



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Cromate
I'm not a freelancer but I wanna try to become one. I read some comments here and I found out that freelancing is a time consuming job. I'm thinking of a sideline job for me as a student that do not consume much of my time since I will be busy for the next semester as we are going to have a thesis. Can you guys recommend some online job for me? Thank you very much!



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Baburra
I've had this thought in the past for similar reasons, as I also felt that freelancing was a bit lonely, but ultimately, I came to the conclusion that the job wasn't really what I should be relying on to socialize anyway. With all the free time I got, I should have spent it on other interests instead of just staying home and watching TV or playing video games, and that's what I did. Now I have lots of friends I can call on during weekends and I still have the fulfillment of working freelance and being able to arrange my own schedule. The only real problem is that sometimes I'm free on weekdays and most of my friends aren't but that's a minor problem and I can just use that time on my hobbies anyway.



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DenisP
I can definitely understand where you're coming from. When I quit my job and decided to take up freelancing instead, I noticed there was a distinct sense of constant solitude compared to working in an office environment. While some people may find this to be a negative experience, I myself jumped for joy. Sure there were times when I missed my coworkers, but I am a very introverted person and I absolutely thrive when I'm left to my own devices. I absolutely love solitude and I wouldn't trade it for the world.



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Nikko25
If you have tried freelancing and it's not really working out for you despite your best efforts, then I suggest finding a regular job for now. Once you have settled into that new job, you can still try to squeeze in a bit of freelancing here and there if you have the time. Another option is to, while working on your regular job, grow and learn as many skills as you can. Once you reach the point that you are already burnt out from your regular job, then you can go back to freelancing with more options this time.



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diels1001
After thinking it thoroughly, I decided that I will really quit it after all. I have noticed that the time and effort that I spend is not equivalent to the income that I earn on it. If I continue to do it, time will come and I will be bankrupt because of this. Just for mention the bills form internet suppliers and electricity corporations, it's not enough. This is really depressing in my part, after applying so many times and got rejected most of it. Being hired in a low price and receive a low rating even if I do my job properly. I know it is difficult to manage the depression but fortunately I got over it and I find out that the only way to stop it is to stop being a freelancer and find a proper job.



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Authord
Yeah, same here, I quit freelancing long time ago, it's not just worth my time, the time wasted on it was not bringing in the expected return, maybe because my skill set was not up to the mark, that can generate massive income for me.



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Destiny00
I am often wondering if the time I'm spending on my writing is worth the money. I'm a slow writer and not easily motivated, so I would never be able to depend on freelance work as my primary income. But for now, I'm going to keep doing the little bit that I do and be happy with the little bit of money it brings in Thinking of quitting freelancing - anyone else?



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tenthztar
I thought about quitting, but i'd rather not since i love doing what i do. I guess it keeps me alive, but once i get back to schooling i might get a regular job instead of freelancing. For now i'll just have to do what i love and see where it takes me.



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Rebara19
If I were you, I would rethink the change. Although being in an office provides you with a company it also requires you to do what youa are told. I chose a freelance-career as I like to be my own boss. Fortunately, I still manage to meet other people baceause many of them solve the same poblem. I am satisfied with this way of earning money as I feel it broadens my horizons of possibilities in general.



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wiseagent
Although I get a little bit discouraged sometimes (because everything seems to run very slowly and values are not always the values that the job deserves), I never thought to give up because I have a regular job, so... Being a freelancer is not my main job. But I imagine that for people who live exclusively from it, it's a very complicated thing.



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Joteque
I am always excited to do freelance work. What I have decided some time ago is to maintain some sort of balance between working online and actually working in the field as I know that completely dedicating myself to either one would cause some issues such as the ones mentioned here. It's also a good idea to take nature walks with friends and visit family members as part of enjoying the freedom and living the life you've always thought of living when you think of having more time and some extra cash at your disposal. It's apart of the forward thinking movement that got you to explore the world of the global freelancer in the first place. Some of us when we get to the mountain top we need to innovate upon our existing discoveries. We cannot just settle for the rise and remember at the top of the mountain or the point where it is a recognizable change in your pursuit to the life which offers more freedom and flexibility there still has to be further plans and pursuits of progress. We cannot just be comfortable and settle without exploring new avenues otherwise the boredom and stagnant issues will creep in and cause withdrawal issues. Just think this is where most people dream of being working for themselves making extra money and having the time to do the things they have always wanted to do. It's well within sight, take it and run with it and make it the best experience ever before it is gone. Then what next what will be the new endeavor and will there be regrets or feelings of accomplishment? Besides there's no rule that says you cannot have both experiences where you can do some freelance work and other times get some field work done in whatever working profession that you are comfortable with.



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wallet
It is hard to work as a freelancer if your job is not satisfactory anymore if you get bored to be a freelancer your results may harm your presentation and soon it will affect your payment as well. Maybe is time for you to try something else for a while, and who knows maybe you will come back and be a freelancer again. Maybe you just need a time off!



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ColdFlameChris
Since I'm new in Freelancing Industry, I have no intention to quit, for now. If I won't get an online job that would suffice for my monthly expenses, then that's the time that I should quit this industry. I'm still giving this a chance for me to grow and learn so I can continue doing a freelance job. This would be a great online job opportunity only if we find a nice online company that really pays well.



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wiseagent
The field of freelancers is very vast, but at the same time it's very crowded and the downside is that it's not such a well-recognized job (mainly related to the financial side).

It really takes a lot of willpower to stay in it.



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ColdFlameChris
Agreed. Only if the big company give this industry a chance, it has a good potential. Imagine, how much they can save from electricity and rent if every employee will work at home. It will definitely lessen the traffic and the expenses of every employee. It will even lessen the crime because there are only a few working people who will be visible in the streets. Hope someday, they will see the potential of it.



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Heatman6190
I can agree in truth that your situation is bad but I would probably say that it's in your own making. Why would you take up freelancing as your full time job? It's never a wise decision, it would definitely eat up your personal and relationship life because it won't afford you any time or chance to relate and bond with people.

It's best to make freelancing a part time job and do other office jobs to back up your generation of fund and resources for your sustainable living. I do freelancing as a part time job and combine it with my teaching job and body sprays and perfume business. It works perfectly fine for me, I don't see any reason why it won't do same for you. Good luck on your new endeavors.



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narutos3nn1n
Hmmm I'm quite familiar with your situation. Although its not mine, my online friend that I met on a group that I created online, which is a girl, and we've been chatting for almost 5 years, ended up quitting on her studies to work as a call center agent to support the study of her twin sister, later on resigned on the job and look for a home based online job. We do chat from time to time,think almost every day sometimes with her twin sister too and we become quite good friends. One day though she starts a conversation that she thinks she might quit on that particular home based job again as it was getting more routinely and she feel she was almost all alone in the house not having anyone to talk to. I think she misses a job too on an office environment together with other employees which later on she became friends with.



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PedroP
This is a very particular and individual situation. Personally, I would never choose a job based on its environment because at the end of the day pay my bills is more important. I can make friends on my spare time no problems



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narutos3nn1n
I agree with you on this. As long as I have a job that I can really enjoy, pay my bills and help me support my finally finances too, I would rather stay on it and work even harder to get a good incentives from my boss who is really generous, from time to time.



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gelotologist
I definitely agree with you, paying bills is an important part why you work on such environments. Personally, I've also been in this situation before but then I rather choose to work because of the money which can definitely help my family,



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PedroP
Yes, money isn't everything but unfortunately, we can't live without it so we must value it. Sometimes in life, our desires do not match our capabilities and we must always keep a cool head and value the most important things first



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Krisleen
I just do freelancing part time. Just for extra income while building my business. I once read the book, Rich Dad Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki. That book tells us to not work just to simply earn money and pay bills. You can do a second, perhaps a part time job where you can work to learn and this is why I do freelancing. I learn while I earn extra money. If you want to quit your freelance job, the best suggestion I can give you is to start a business and build it until it's stable enough to cover your expenses and even your dreams. There is a saying that we are not born just to work, pay bills, and die. A stable business can help you quit freelancing without sacrificing time freedom. You earn more while you spend more time with your loved ones.



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narutos3nn1n
Owning a business. That was the goal I have in mind way back three years ago when I've stumbled upon a networking group promoting their products to their prospects. I'm quite surprised when I suddenly saw the speaker during that day which I never know cause when we are waiting for their guests to arrive he's just talking and dressed like a normal guy in front of us. Then he suddenly turnout to be the main guy who is earning quite a big money every month just by referring people to buy the company's product by which he was affiliated with. There are certain points that I clearly haven't forgotten on that gathering, that in order to achieve your goal to become financially stable, working an ample amount of jobs every day will certainly not get you there but doing or planning for a business will lead you on a better future.



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Kakashi2020
I think you guys should go out more and do your online work outside, it can be in a coffee shop, mall, park, a friends house, anywhere just distance yourself from your home. Be a digital nomad and enjoy yourselves.



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